Pinpoint what you have brought to each other's lives.
Spend an afternoon or an evening with just the two of you and talk about what is important to each person in your work, your relationship and your personal lives and see where you intersect or can be of help to each other.
Even a night in together reminiscing about the things you've done can be a special way to celebrate. Find a movie theater that has a dining-in experience.
Some are simple, some are more involved, and the prices and effort required vary—but all are decidedly not-lame.
Looking for a romantic gift she’ll enjoy even when you’re on the road?
Give her a jar of messages and thoughts she will read when she wants to feel you close.
These gifts should be unique and of notably good quality, to reflect the importance of your feelings for her.
If there is anything that women like, it is originality, something that shows how much work you did pondering how to reveal your feelings differently from any ex of her past; it has to be special.