It is a delicate balance, but really you just have to remember two basic facts about men: I remember once when I was dating a woman and I texted her, asking if she wanted to do something that evening.
She texted back saying: “I’m going to that concert I told you about tonight with my friends.
If you tend to be more of an anxious type, try reminding yourself that a first date is a casual getting-to-know-you session.Even better, there are several things you can do to avoid disappointment and ensure that the first meeting is as enjoyable as possible for both of you., they aren’t ideal. You’re looking at an hour or more looking at each other and holding, or attempting to hold a conversation.The problem with going to the movies is the opposite.There are no commitment clauses, only an opportunity for great conversation and company.When you put your interest in another person and what he or she is all about first above your insecure thoughts about yourself, the nervousness melts away and you can truly “be yourself.” On the other hand, less than positive anticipation toward a date can indicate that your feelings for the person that you’re meeting are not that strong.If the idea of meeting somebody after chatting with them online makes you nervous, you aren’t alone.The person you are meeting is probably just as anxious as you are. Even when they go badly, these meet ups are almost never as bad as you imagined. But I’ve had it done to me, and boy, does it sting.It’s like you were on two completely different dates.So I want to share 5 golden techniques for keeping a guy hooked well beyond the first few dates: 1.Show DESIRE Without Dependence To play it cool, or to not play it cool?Any time you are able to show both of these qualities, you are making yourself incredibly valuable in a man’s eyes. Don’t Jump The Gun I’m not against whirlwind romances when they happen, but 95% of the time, it’s important to let things go at their own pace.The worst thing you can do at this stage is artificially push things forward by assuming commitment too early, or by showing too much possessiveness, or any other type of premature “girlfriend” behaviour, like checking up on him or trying too hard to be a big part of his life.All right, so now you’re all set with a shiny dating profile that’s garnered lots of hits from potential hotties.