There’s no reason to assume that one dream about having sex with a girl automatically means you’re a lesbian. If you’re seriously questioning your sexuality, ask yourself these questions: are you regularly attracted to other girls? You said you’ve never thought about other girls in that way before – so that sounds like a pretty clear indication that you’ve never questioned your sexuality until now.
However, I don’t know you and I’m not you (obviously), so I can’t say for sure.There’s a magic rule to apply when figuring out your sex dreams: Pick three words that first come to mind when thinking of that person.Of those three qualifiers, is there one that would benefit you right now if you were to incorporate it into your own personality? That’s what that person represents and that’s why you’re having sex in the dream. You’re not weird or creepy, and you don’t ACTUALLY want to bone your best friend’s boyfriend, your boss, or your brother.I am a girl and I’m straight, or at least I have way too much fun with boys. So would I worry too much about a sex dream about someone unexpected? What I’m basically saying is that having a dream about your female best friend doesn’t mean you’re a lesbian.I have never looked at a girl and thought anything more than, “Oh, she’s pretty.” But the other night, I had a, um, sexy dream about my best friend (who is a girl and is also straight). I bet if you asked around, everyone would admit to having at least one completely random sex dream during their life.If you spend all day thinking about someone famous, there is a good chance that you might see that person in your dream.When you spend all of your waking thoughts about a certain person, that person will start to show up in your dreams.It is not surprising that young teenage girls are the most likely to have a dream about their favorite You Tube star or boy band crush.Justin Bieber and One Direction are just a few of the singers who are likely to be dreamt about by young impressionable fans.(Sorry to take the fun out of it.)In most cases, sex in a dream is not about a physical union you want, but rather [it’s about] a psychological union you need or want.It’s all about having or needing a psychological connection with the person in your dream or merging a particular quality that person has into your own personality.The more direct interaction you have with a celebrity, the more likely you are going to have a deeper connection with that person.If a fan is able to directly communicate and interact with a celebrity on twitter or You Tube, that fan is likely to form a deeper bond and connection.In my dream, we were in her room and doing things that straight girls don’t do with each other and now I’m totally confused. Just because you’re dreaming about getting down and dirty with someone doesn’t mean you have to or that you secretly want to.