These problems should be left to the trained professionals. Otherwise, you’ll either attract a partner that has the savior complex (see above) or you’ll attract a partner with the same issues. I realize that in order to meet men you need to get out there and be sociable, whether “out there” means the local ski club or the local web scene and I’m all for that. But if you’re not actively pursuing your own interests at the same time, then there’s a problem.And as much as misery loves company, misery plus misery doubles the misery. If you’re thinking to yourself right now, “The only thing I’m interested in is meeting a man,” then you’re in the deep.The following list of suggested dos and don’ts may give you some ideas to get you started.
” Well, I’m certainly not arguing that you want a real relationship.
Unhealed hurt, resentment or anger may have a negative impact on your emotional health and also on any future relationships.
Grieving isn’t an easy or a pleasant process but it does help – it will help you to heal, to move forward and to find hope once again.
And as with any significant loss, it is important to give yourself the time and space to grieve for what has gone.
Some people are tempted to block out the negative feelings or try to bury them.