Do you want to constantly be worrying about all the girls throwing themselves at your man?And don’t get me started on the mood swings when he can’t find the right note or the right line to add to his song.“The big ‘chess move’ in dating is how quickly you respond to messages,” explains Aaron, 27.“Contacting someone is like losing power, so no-one wants to seem eager.If you make a man wait and work hard to lock down a date with you, he will worship you.
Buy her a nice meal, so that she knows what she owes you in exchange for the meal.And 90 per cent of the time, the other person will exactly match their response speed to the time you took to reply.If a convo isn’t going anywhere, I always walk away for a day or two to get them more interested.” But while Aaron’s approach is on the tactical side, others’ are just plain dirty.No woman is eager to advertise that she may have read a dating and relationship self-help book or two. I noticed that all the books I've read give the same old silly dating tips that encourage women to play games. After all, if you meet your soul mate, you shouldn't have to play any games to win him over, right? During my many years of bad dates and finding myself too often in the wrong relationship, I've turned to those books in times of desperation.[Read: 9 reasons your ideal man wish list isn’t working out for you] Which guys should you avoid dating?If it’s love you want, you won’t find it in these guys.If a man really likes you, he will move mountains to win you over.The harder he has to fight for you, the more he will value you.You did a lot of work and you're tired, and you have important work to do tomorrow.Make sure she stays free all the time in case you call. You're looking to settle down in a country home with that one special girl. She'll figure out the more ridiculous ones eventually but if you play this right you'll get laid first and have her captured.Well, currently I'm in a happy and healthy relationship with an amazing man.It recently dawned on me that I snagged my boyfriend by subconsciously following many of those silly rules.In addition, if you buy her a fancy schmancy dinner at some ritzy place, she won't be able to turn down your request for a 0 "loan" until you can "get to the cash machine." Good investment. Girls do this stare at the phone thing, makes them all anticipatory. Call her in a couple of days or if you get horny again.