Last week I made the decision to end my 7-year marriage because of physical and emotional abuse.
When you both have the attention and energy for each other, dating after divorce can be a wonderfully fun and fulfilling experience.
You are perceived as being a challenge to get your time and attention, thus, making you more desirable.
Putting down your ex or rehashing old hurts will only keep you in a negative and depressed state if mind. A leader, however, creates value because he/she has a full life, his time is scarce.
to your female friends for company and support, but stay clear of "male bashing." Keep the conversations positive. Trying one new thing per month will give you confidence in yourself and you never know who you might meet. It is a short-lived ego boost for the hunted, but ultimately not attractive (you're too easy to get).
A hunter is someone that follows or pursues someone else. First, to practice dating, getting ready when it will really matters; second, get comfortable around romantic prospects again — it's like working out, you have to get back into "dating shape"; third, it builds your self-confidence, improving your appeal!