Yet the decades sadly so rarely seem to play well together.As a younger man myself, I have tried to identify how exactly older guys can love, exhort, and invest in younger men around them — men like me.
famously proclaimed 2009 as the year of the cougar.As one of the leading dating sites for mature singles, there's no shortage of older women dating younger men on Elite Singles.With 100% verified profiles and members using our premium service to look for long-lasting love, our site has become the go-to destination for finding a serious romance with a younger partner safely and securely.On behalf of other younger men, with humility and boldness, we plead with our older brothers for five things. Young men need to hear, “Everything’s going to be okay.” Most days we’re pretty sure our lives are an utter failure, a disaster zone even. You pray, “From my youth you have taught me,” and, “Even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to come” (Psalm –18).Young men are often asking of older men, “Do you care about me? ” We can watch You Tube videos for advice, wisdom, and inspiration for life’s complexities. Now, for every gray hair, we want one story of God’s faithfulness, one lesson from years of learning God and his world. Was there a time when you had that same life experience? We need to hear, “God is faithful in that situation, because I’ve seen it — I have involved in this tragic world — in a young man’s tragic life — because sometimes we’re not so sure.These stereotypes will persist until we topple them.A few months ago, the Daddyhunt team got the idea to put together a video series to do just that; show why the modern daddy is so in demand, and what gay dating looks like for men with a little salt in their beards.” The buff pup is played by BJ Gruber, the salt-and-pepper ‘handyman’ by Jim Newman, and their sexy friends are Michael Snipe Jr and David Farrington. With Christian blogs today, we can access answers to most every life question without even picking up the phone. It’s hard for most Christians to spend time alone with God.We should still ask you, but we don’t need older men mainly because they’re smarter. For you to take time with the Father — with Father — to intercede for us, to pray for our good, and to ask for wisdom for us, means more than you know. Take those ten or fifteen years you have on us and do with them in prayer what we haven’t learned to do yet as unskilled, inexperienced, and scared younger men. We’re not your peers, so don’t measure yourself against us.However, what’s actually going on underneath the pop-style commentary and tabloid tales of ‘cougars’ and their ‘cubs’?In search of clarity, we set out on a mission to look beyond the loaded monikers and dubious hype surrounding older woman/younger man relationships.Just keep in mind that there is almost a 20 year age difference, so while he's rockin' to Taylor Swift, you're humming The Commodores.But, generation aside, if he shows interest then he's definitely digging your vibe. I've been living abroad since 2006 (in Buenos Aires, Melbourne, Bangkok and now Cape Town), and the men I date seem to get younger every year.